When something is difficult at home, it’s natural to focus on what we want our child to do differently.
Seventeen begins with you.
Not because everything depends on you. But because how you arrive, what you notice and the way you respond can begin to change what happens between you.
Parenting isn’t linear. The same situations can come back again and again.
The Seventeen Loop gives you a way to meet those moments differently — with more space to pause, see and choose how you want to respond.
You return.
Parenting isn’t about getting every moment right. There will be times when you react, miss what was happening or say something you wish you hadn’t.
What matters is knowing that you can come back, reconnect and begin again.
You don’t need to get it right every time. You need to know how to return.
Seventeen is a space to see yourself, your child and the relationship between you with different eyes.
It’s not about having all the answers, but about pausing, seeing what’s happening differently and discovering what feels right for you and your family.
Your child will keep growing and changing. And so will you.
At Seventeen, you have someone alongside you as you learn, discover and find your own way forward — together.
Ten connected conversations where parents come together to see themselves, their children and their relationship with different eyes.
Together, we pause, reflect and learn — discovering new ways of understanding what happens at home and how we want to respond as our children grow.
At the heart of the Seventeen Method is the Seventeen Loop: PAUSE · SEE · RESPOND.
It gives you a simple way to approach everyday moments with your child: create space before you react, look beyond what you first see, and choose how you want to respond.
And because parenting isn’t linear, the Loop doesn’t end there. When things don’t go as you hoped, you can return, reconnect and begin again.
The Seventeen Method brings together Conscious Parenting, Positive Discipline and Positive Psychology with professional learning, experience working with families and the lived experience of parenting.
Together, these shape a method designed for real family life.
It’s not about getting every moment right. It’s about knowing how to find your way back.
I’m Arantxa, Parent Coach and founder of Seventeen. I’m also the Co-Founder of WeSee Education, where we bring a positive perspective to adolescence and support young people, parents and educators as they navigate these important years together. I highly recommend watching our foundational masterclasses.
As a mother of seven, my own experience of family life — alongside my training in Conscious Parenting, Positive Discipline and Positive Psychology — shapes the way I work with parents.
Seventeen brings those worlds together: professional learning, years of working with families and the lived experience of parenting.
If you’re looking for support for yourself or your family, one-to-one sessions are the best place to start.
We’ll begin with where you are now — what’s happening at home, what feels difficult and what you would like to be different — and take it from there.
If you’re not sure what kind of support would be most helpful, you can start with an Intro Call and we can explore it together.
A one-to-one session is a calm, confidential space focused on you and your family.
We start with what is happening for you right now. Together, we explore what may be sitting beneath the difficult moments, notice what might be getting in the way, and look at practical ways to move forward.
There is no judgement and no one-size-fits-all formula. The work is shaped around you, your child and the relationship you want to build.
You can book a one-to-one session or an Intro Call directly through the website, or send me a message on WhatsApp.or send me a message on WhatsApp.
I’ll reply personally and we can take it from there.
Sessions take place either online via video call or in person — whichever feels most comfortable and convenient for you.
Yes. One-to-one programmes can be paid in full or in monthly instalments at checkout.
Seventeen for Schools is a journey of ten connected conversations for parents of pre-teens and teenagers.
Rather than a series of standalone talks, each conversation builds on the one before, helping parents understand themselves, their children and the relationship between them in a different way.
Together, we move through the Seventeen Loop — PAUSE · SEE · RESPOND — exploring how it can support parents in the real moments of family life.
The programme is designed in partnership with each school, creating a shared journey for its parent community.
If you’re interested in bringing Seventeen to your school, send me an email and tell me a little about your school and what you’re looking for.
We can then arrange a conversation and explore how Seventeen could support your parent community.
If something you’ve read here resonates with you, I’d be happy to answer any questions you may have.